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Richmond

25 May ’61

 

I have been trying, dearest Mary, ever since the reception of your letter by Custis to write to [you]. I sympathize deeply in your feelings at leaving your dear home. I have experienced them myself & they are constantly revived. I fear we have not been grateful enough for the happiness there within our reach, & our heavenly father has found it necessary to deprive us of what he had given us. I acknowledge my ingratitude, my transgressions & my unworthiness & Submit with resignation to what he thinks proper to inflict on me.

We must trust all there to him & I do not think it prudent or right for you to return there, while the U. S. troops occupy that Country. I have gone over all this ground before & have just written to Cousin Anna on the Subject.

While writing I recd a telegram from Cousin John G urging your departure “South.” I suppose he is impressed with the risk of your present position, & in addition to the possibility, or probability of personal annoyance to yourself, I fear your presence may provoke annoyance to Cousin Anna. But unless Cousin Anna goes with you, I shall be tortured about her being there alone. If the girls went to Kinlock or E V you & Cousin A might take care of yourselves because you could get in the carriage & go off in an emergency. But I really am afraid that you may prove of more harm than Comfort to her.

Mr. Wm C. Rives has just been in to say that if you & Cousin A. will go to his house, he will be very happy for you to stay as long as you please. That his son has a commodious house just opposite his, unoccupied, partially furnished, that you could if you prefer take that, bring up Servants & what you desired, & remain there as independent as at home. It is 7 miles East of Charlottesville, Cobhams station. That though is on the direct line to Staunton &c & is objectionable unless we can shut them off below.

I must now leave the matter to you & pray that God may Guard you. I have no time for more. I know & feel the discomfort of your position but it cannot be helped, & we must bear our trials like christians.

Smith is well & Custis apparently so. Edwd Butler is here. Perry & the horse has arrived. The former is looking very badly.

If you & Cousin Anna choose to come here you know how happy we shall be to see you. I shall take the field as soon now as I can.

Give much love to the girls. Thank Cousin J for his kindness. May God guard & bless you.

Ever yours truly & devotedly,

            R E Lee

 

 

 

Source: Photocopy of original, Lee Family Papers, Mss1 L51 c 295, Virginia Historical Society, Richmond

Transcribed by Colin Woodward, 2018 March 7

 

 

1. John Goldsborough.

2. Eastern View in Maryland.

3. Again, John Goldsborough.

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